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It’s good to see everyone fall in love with their partners. It’s good to see how they are sweet with each other. It’s good to see how they care to each other. It’s good to see how they treat each other, but what if someone look back realizing that the one they‘re loving is not the one that’s going to be with them for the rest of their life? What if it’s not really what we called, “true love”? What if it’s just an infatuation? What if it’s just in the start? Who knows? Who cares?

Wikipedia: Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection; and "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".

William Shakespeare: Love is a smoke raised with the fume of sighs, being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers' eyes,
being vexed, a sea nourished with lovers' tears. What is it else? A madness most discreet,
A choking gall and a preserving sweet.

Dictionary:A feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, asfor a parent, child, or friend.

Wikipedia and dictionary knows a lot but do they fall in love? William Shakespeare likes to make love quotes but does he have that perfect relationship? hmm.. love? Love? What is love? I can say I love you but can you feel it? People easily fall for an easy saying “I love you”. Maybe the others are serious but the others are not. Words cannot express the love feeling that a person has. It is being expressed by actions. It is not the word that is always right.

Now, a person fell in love. He or she thinks, “This is it! It’s the real love!” They will be in love for a long time, thinking of the future with their love ones, etc. Then they will meet each other’s family then suddenly, the love vanished easily. This can easily happen to younger people who don’t know what a real love is.

An easy love can hurt so badly, especially when people started to become serious. You can never blame them for being serious but you can say that it’s normal to be hurt when you love person.

Another thing, many people are really pushy. They know already that they have partners but still, they want another one. Hmm.. Is there a love in this case? I say yes to this, but the love that we’re talking about here is the so called “THE WRONG ONE”. A girlfriend loves her boyfriend but the girlfriend suddenly found a better one. Girlfriend found a perfect one, the one that is better than her boyfriend. So, the girlfriend will have two boyfriends at the same time. WHAT’S WITH THE COMPARING? WHAT’S WITH TWO BOYS AT THE SAME TIME? Yes it’s stupid but it happens to many people. Seriously, it will happen but not for a long time. The person who’s having a third party will come up with a decision. And that decision will end the WRONG LOVE.  It can be too hard but truth will always go and show itself, unless the lovers of that person won’t agree to the decision then there will be a big conflict. Good thing is, people can learn a lot from it. From being hurt on what they’re doing.  It’s like you’re first time to touch a hot pot, then you won’t touch a hot pot anymore because it’s too painful.

There can be a perfect love, wrong love, fake love, blah… blah… more love. What happening to others cannot and can be happen to you. You are different from millions of people around the world and there is only one decision that is the most important when you are loving a person and that is yours. Don’t listen to what other people say, it is you, your heart will lead you to the right path.